If I see the guy I like at work again should I hit on him?

[cloud9vortex1234]

Yes, I think you should. Do you have a Holiday Party at your work around Christmas? Perhaps you could talk with him to see if you share some Positive Vibes. You could be upfront with him about how you feel. Or, you could just make it quick the next time you see him.

[mobiusforniner]

It's great when the relationship works. When things become awkward, it really sucks. Because you still have to see them everyday and everyone else around you talks about what's going on.

[coachTanthony]

Omg you don't have to hit on him... just pass him a note that says... check the box.. do you like me

Yes or NO

LOL LOL LOL

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I always say cut the ham out of the club sandwich & don’t putz around. If you like someone let them know & if you don’t let them know you will always wonder & kick yourself in the ass later on in life. Grow a set girl & go up to him you chicken shit you.

[cth96190]

Since #MeToo began, most men have become extremely wary of having anything to do with females in the workplace.
If the man is intelligent and is ruled by the larger of his two heads, he will not go near you.
That sucks, but it is what men have to do to survive today.

[Kiss_Me]

No.. and Yes.
No- If he is a co-worker then the answer is NO. Never date people from your job. It's unwise virtually every time.
Yes- I see no problem with you being brave and make your interest known. (just don't date co-workers)

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I'm a little confused. Do you mean you see him at his job, or you saw him at his job?
If it's the first, I would say don't hit on him while he's working.
If it's the second, it's your choice if yy wanna do that at work

[Don-__-Don]

Hit on him, you're wasting time by playing hard to get.

Imagine playing hard to get and then nothing comes of it. Then you'll end up getting mad about it, but maybe it's because he wasn't into you to begin with.

[Ally247]

Don't hit on him, hit him. Then when he's shocked you can respond 'it appears you stimulate me in ways one should not be stimulated'

[DeeToPlay]

As long as he's not aware that you are attracted to him nothing else will ever change. As long as it's not going to jeopardize your employment I say don't hesitate to express yourself.

[Jjpayne]

It depends on how he feels about you. If he likes you vs avoids you. It all depends on how he behaves when you approach him

[slatyb]

Just invite him to coffee or whatever. That's how adults tell someone we like them.

[loveslongnails]

Has your list of requirements for a man gotten any shorter? If not, consider how many of them he fails before you even know him and ask yourself it it's worth it.

[dreamstar72]

First check his outside life first before you hit on him.

[Texaskid1]

No.

Be professional at work. Don't flirt in front of your coworkers.

[douride2]

Yes by all means let him know how you feel. Don't hit on him at work though.

[Torari]

Don't eat where you shit and don't date where you work. Unless you don't mind quitting the job and moving elsewhere when you eventually break up

[suleuman]

Can I be the one whom you like..😀

Go and tell that asshole I like you. you are beautiful he will be happy.

[Dre_808]

If you like someone you should let them know, life if too short to not go for what you want.

[Tunasub]

It's the only way you're going to find out if you don't like him..🤷🏾‍♂️

[Agem123]

Depends if he has given any hints that he might like you too.

[Anonymous]

It's a reminder of my lifelong hatred towards the gender role that guys have to be the initiators