How to bump in to your crush?

Question

How to bump in to your crush. But you don’t want to go visit their home just like bump into them outside

Answer 1

Cherokeehp | 172 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Guru

So you mean stalking? It’s not “bumping into each other” if you intentionally plan to try to see him. Where do you normally see your crush. Go wait there and look casual.

Answer 2

psychoticanimallover

Xper 5

Just start up an independent bookstore in New York City and you’ll start bumping into him everywhere - the supermarket, Starbucks, the flower shop, parties, the park.

Answer 3

Anonymous

Walk by his house a lot and see if you run into him outside well if he lives nearby..

Asker

28 d
At what time is the best. He does work also so thats the problem. But i do know where he works at
Opinion Owner

28 d
Hmm when is he usually home? Try to observe a little. I literally always missed my crush!:( or maybe stop by his job depending where it is? You want him to notice you huh.
Asker

28 d
He works at a big postal service company so me going there would be obvious😂😂 and i wouldn’t know when he would be like in the train station and all so it would be kinda complicated and the workers are only allowed inside the buildding so i think going to his house is the best choice but for example yesterday he was Saturday he was at home but i don’t have the pantient to wait untill Saturday to go there😂😂
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Asker

28 d
And im not trying to ring the bell because he lives w his parents and that would be so messy. I just want to bump in to him outside

Answer 4

Asker

At what time is the best. He does work also so thats the problem. But i do know where he works at

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

Hmm when is he usually home? Try to observe a little. I literally always missed my crush!:( or maybe stop by his job depending where it is? You want him to notice you huh.

Answer 6

Asker

He works at a big postal service company so me going there would be obvious😂😂 and i wouldn’t know when he would be like in the train station and all so it would be kinda complicated and the workers are only allowed inside the buildding so i think going to his house is the best choice but for example yesterday he was Saturday he was at home but i don’t have the pantient to wait untill Saturday to go there😂😂

Answer 7

Asker

And im not trying to ring the bell because he lives w his parents and that would be so messy. I just want to bump in to him outside

Answer 8

Chris786

Xper 5

can't you just text him to come over?

Asker

28 d
He has a girlfriend but he has i know he has feelings towards me i want to talk to him face 2 face finally about being friends and all cuz im fed up with this confusing stuff.
Chris786

28 d
As a guy who's been involved with married women before I would advise you to run in the opposite direction.
Trust me you don't want to be the other woman and get dragged into his relationship.
Just pursue single people and make your life so much easier.
Just my opinion.
Asker

28 d
He is young in his 21 and im 22. I really would want to talk to him face 2 face as friends and solve things. Not necessarily trying to have sex w him anymore
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Asker

28 d
Thats why i would like to bump into him outside but i don’t want to ring the bell on his door cuz he lives with his parents
Asker

28 d
What should i do?
Asker

28 d
I have known him 4 years
Asker

28 d
He is just not anybody to me
Chris786

28 d
Ever hear of facebook?
It's this fancy new invention that allows you to contact all kinds of people without leaving your house.
Just send him a message, "Hey you, I want to discuss our friendship."
Asker

28 d
I did!! Lol messaged him couple times this year and he would flirt w me sexually and all but we would get into it because he would say he has a “gf” . So months past by and yesterday i texted him he was flirting and saying stuff like he wants to f me. I was like hold on i don’t i just want to talk to you normally but i don’t think he believes that. He knows i care about him tho. We have had sex only one time but i know he liked it lol cuz he had it with me twice. But like i said talks like that but then acts rude and says he can’t talk w me. So i want to finally talk f2f but im just trying to figure about how?
Chris786

28 d
He has a girlfriend though.
He's acting terrible by even flirting with you behind her back.
Don't you feel any guilt about it?
You do understand that he's not going to leave her for you, he's just gonna try to fuck you on the side.
Asker

28 d
I don’t feel horrible because i know even tho flirted and wanted something with him before now i just want to talk with him face 2 face. Im nit trying to have sex w him. I feel like there is no harm. And i want to talk w him outside not anywhere inside like in a home etc.
Asker

28 d
He says he is not that good looking but she’s beautiful inside. And she is the one and he will move in w her soon. but then says he wants to fuck me? Pretty weird but like i just want to talk to him in person have any advice how i could do that?
Chris786

28 d
Who are you kidding?
You have a crush on him and you want to see him.
I've been there, I know how you just want to be with that person and nothing else matters to you right now.
I just feel like you would be way better off to honestly try to meet someone new.
Someone single for now.
Again, just my opinion.
Good luck.
Asker

28 d
I just wrote “crush” so i would get quick answers.

Answer 9

Asker

He has a girlfriend but he has i know he has feelings towards me i want to talk to him face 2 face finally about being friends and all cuz im fed up with this confusing stuff.

Answer 10

Chris786

As a guy who's been involved with married women before I would advise you to run in the opposite direction.
Trust me you don't want to be the other woman and get dragged into his relationship.
Just pursue single people and make your life so much easier.
Just my opinion.

Answer 11

Asker

He is young in his 21 and im 22. I really would want to talk to him face 2 face as friends and solve things. Not necessarily trying to have sex w him anymore

Answer 12

Asker

Thats why i would like to bump into him outside but i don’t want to ring the bell on his door cuz he lives with his parents

Answer 13

Asker

What should i do?

Answer 14

Asker

I have known him 4 years

Answer 15

Asker

He is just not anybody to me

Answer 16

Chris786

Ever hear of facebook?
It's this fancy new invention that allows you to contact all kinds of people without leaving your house.
Just send him a message, "Hey you, I want to discuss our friendship."

Answer 17

Asker

I did!! Lol messaged him couple times this year and he would flirt w me sexually and all but we would get into it because he would say he has a “gf” . So months past by and yesterday i texted him he was flirting and saying stuff like he wants to f me. I was like hold on i don’t i just want to talk to you normally but i don’t think he believes that. He knows i care about him tho. We have had sex only one time but i know he liked it lol cuz he had it with me twice. But like i said talks like that but then acts rude and says he can’t talk w me. So i want to finally talk f2f but im just trying to figure about how?

Answer 18

Chris786

He has a girlfriend though.
He's acting terrible by even flirting with you behind her back.
Don't you feel any guilt about it?
You do understand that he's not going to leave her for you, he's just gonna try to fuck you on the side.

Answer 19

Asker

I don’t feel horrible because i know even tho flirted and wanted something with him before now i just want to talk with him face 2 face. Im nit trying to have sex w him. I feel like there is no harm. And i want to talk w him outside not anywhere inside like in a home etc.

Answer 20

Asker

He says he is not that good looking but she’s beautiful inside. And she is the one and he will move in w her soon. but then says he wants to fuck me? Pretty weird but like i just want to talk to him in person have any advice how i could do that?

Answer 21

Chris786

Who are you kidding?
You have a crush on him and you want to see him.
I've been there, I know how you just want to be with that person and nothing else matters to you right now.
I just feel like you would be way better off to honestly try to meet someone new.
Someone single for now.
Again, just my opinion.
Good luck.

Answer 22

Asker

I just wrote “crush” so i would get quick answers.

Answer 23

Anonymous

Leave him alone, he’s in a relationship.

Answer 24

lanadelrey25

Yoda

Stalk them first.

Asker

29 d
What do you mean by that? He never post on social media like where he is and all but only thing i know is where he lives and where he words.
Asker

29 d
Works*
Asker

29 d
So i know where he lives and where he works
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lanadelrey25

29 d
Yeah, go to his house, hide in the bushes, and wait for him to leave. Follow him to see where he goes, then casually "bump" into him there. Duh.
Asker

28 d
But how would i know when he comes outside?
Asker

28 d
I kinda did that yesterday but i went there at 7pm it was dark and he lives w his parents. I was thinking if he wouldn’t go outside im waiting for nothing. And i waited on another building next to his
lanadelrey25

28 d
You just have to wait obviously. A good stalker doesn't mind waiting.
Asker

28 d
Did u read my other message? So what time would be good to go?
lanadelrey25

28 d
You sent your message right after I sent mine, go early in the morning.
Asker

28 d
Like at what time? The problem here is that he works also lol, so he has morning, evening and night shifts it depends on a day but in the weekends i don’t think he has any shift not sure but like if i would do in the morning at what time is the best?

Answer 25

Asker

What do you mean by that? He never post on social media like where he is and all but only thing i know is where he lives and where he words.

Answer 26

Asker

Works*

Answer 27

Asker

So i know where he lives and where he works

Answer 28

lanadelrey25

Yeah, go to his house, hide in the bushes, and wait for him to leave. Follow him to see where he goes, then casually "bump" into him there. Duh.

Answer 29

Asker

But how would i know when he comes outside?

Answer 30

Asker

I kinda did that yesterday but i went there at 7pm it was dark and he lives w his parents. I was thinking if he wouldn’t go outside im waiting for nothing. And i waited on another building next to his

Answer 31

lanadelrey25

You just have to wait obviously. A good stalker doesn't mind waiting.

Answer 32

Asker

Did u read my other message? So what time would be good to go?

Answer 33

lanadelrey25

You sent your message right after I sent mine, go early in the morning.

Answer 34

Asker

Like at what time? The problem here is that he works also lol, so he has morning, evening and night shifts it depends on a day but in the weekends i don’t think he has any shift not sure but like if i would do in the morning at what time is the best?

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