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So you think he will talk to me if i ignore him?
Why do you care? The world is full of men you will be attracted to. Save your time and energy for those who at least try to pursue you.
Well he have tried to pursue me before but i kind of rejected him becsue he had problems, it’s been an on and off thing for over a year
Then this is on you. You either take the lead or you give up. And stop texting, call him for fuck sake.
So you think he acts like this because he is waiting for me to take the lead?
You rejected his advances before. What do you think?
True, he claims that he still likes me but maybe he is carefull because he is afraid to be rejected again. im gonna see what happens when i try a bit more.
There is no "try a bit more". At this point you have to take the lead and take his role for a while. You didn't let him lead when he was supposed to. Now it's your job to pursue him.
So you think he will like if i do this? Guys usually don’t like when girls pursue right?
It's irrelevant if he will like it. At this point that's your only option if you want to date him. Later, he will try to re-establish the natural order of things, but right now you have to "go the extra mile". What most of us men do not like is when we are being pursued *aggressively*.And no, i personally like when a woman makes it completely clear to me that she likes me. I don't let her pursue me however, after she gets me to the first date i am taking the lead. Doesn't have to mean he will though, maybe you'll have to set up up to the first three dates. Just don't be aggressive.
Okay thanks, i will show him that i like him and really try 100% and see what happens 👍🏼
Just to be on the safe side, what is considered aggressive lol?
Just use common sense and don't overdo anything. Don't call him every day, call him once or twice per week; Once you are dating, don't triple and quadruple text him if he didn't answer your first text; When you are in person, show interest by touching him a lot, but don't grab him by the crotch.
Haha okay, but if he doesn’t reply to my snap or whatever should i just continue to send?
Fuck snapchat. Call him. Two tries and if he doesn't answer or calls you back after the second one, that's an answer. In that case just find a next guy and don't play hard to get.