How to overcome jealousy when your crush flirts with another girl?

[SueShe]

Ones does not overcome jealousy when your crush flirts with another girl. One just moves ahead in life and forgets about this crush.

The definition of flirting is:

"a sexual behavior involving spoken or written communication, as well as body language, by one person to another, to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person".

Therefore, if the guy flirts with another girl, it is obvious that he has very defined intentions with that girl and that you, as the one that crushes, has absolutely no chance whatsoever if you don't make your voice heard.

If you keep in the distance, he will never even acknowledge you.

[zeitgeist057]

Realize how fun it is for the two of them to flirt with each other, and realize how selfish it is for you to be so negative about two other people enjoying themselves. This world isn't all about you, there are many other people on the planet, and the more you learn to enjoy other people enjoying themselves even if it has nothing to do with you, the happier you can be.

The jealousy path is also the insecurity path and the selfish path, it's not one of happiness. People are going to love you more when you love and accept them more. If you are mad at them and disapprove of them enjoying themselves, they are going to distance from you and that won't feel good.

[Anonymous]

Occupy your mind somewhere else. Romanticize someone else. I dont mean another person. But if you can, do it. What is much more ideal is, a fictional character. Like maybe from a book or tv-show. Or movies. Whoever you think is hot. And the character is just what you want. Romanticize it. That way your mind will be occupied. And you will no longer care about crush.

I used this method to get over lot of crushes.

[Heiniken]

Ask him out.

If he says yes and you two start dating you can set rules of no flirting with the other sex. If he says no it will be easier to let go of him as a crush.

[Texaskid1]

Nothing you can do but bear it. He may not know you are into him. But a crush will come and go. It is best to find another guy amd date him. 99 % of crushes are horrible since they are built in a fantasy.

[sbnalenon]

U flirt with your crush lol

[Avicenna]

You talk to him and ask him out. Elbow her aside.

[Anonymous]

Find another crush

[Anonymous]

get a life