Why would a man say he doesn’t want to start anything until he’s back from working abroad, but text her everyday like they’re together?

Why does he want the option to be with others if he expects her to act like they’re together? He complained about being the only one pursuing, but she explained she thought he was seeing others and didn’t want to get in the way. What exactly is he expecting from this? I’m so confused. I figured it was only friendship at this point.
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