How should I message her?

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I have a crush on this girl that I know and don’t have her number but I do follow her on IG so I could DM her. How should I approach this? Should I message her complimenting her last couple posts? Should I ask her to hang out immediately? Should I try small talk first? Or with Valentine’s Day coming up should I ask her to be my valentine? Please vote and leave comments

Compliment her last couple posts

Ask her to hang out in the first message

Try small talk first

Ask her to be your valentine

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Answer 1

BigHomieNasty

Xper 3

There’s many answers to this question and there could be multiple right and wrong answers.

Your approach should be considerate of three things...

1. Your comfortabilities and preferences
2. Her comfortabilities and preferences
3. The relationship (or lack of relationship) currently between the two of you.

As long as you check those three things, you should be fine. Not a guarantee that she will be interested, but a good indicator that you won’t embarrass yourself.

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Answer 2

doctord00m

Xper 3

Is this like a coworker or a classmate? Talk to her in person. Some rando cam ho? Send her a nice to the point message. If you're good looking send her a pic.

Answer 3

CurlyGirl42

Xper 6

A little compliment AND start some small talk about her posts, or better yet something you shared in real life.

Answer 4

msc545 | 104 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Yoda

Small talk to begin with

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