During early stages of attracting someone, are you completely yourself or do you fabricate your personality a little or a lot?

[Rab1901]

It's easy to say you're completely yourself, but I think that a lot of people fabricate at least a little, maybe become more/less talkative or outgoing. Maybe you fabricate a whole lot to make yourself cooler.

You might initially not even be trying to fabricate yourself but you get nervous. What has your experience been?

Completely myself

Vote A

Fabricate a little

Vote B

Fabricate a lot

Vote C

Updates:

[NamerOfStars]

As a wise man once told someone I was hiding in the bushes near, you should never do anything in a relationship you're not comfortable doing for the rest of your life. I am what I am, both the good and the bad, and I don't pretend otherwise. Naturally, this does drive off some people, who EXPECT to be played up to, at least at first. But it pays off if they stick around and learn that it wasn't just an act.

[Ironic_Method]

I put no effort into trying to impress someone. Thats the secret to a lasting relationship. If it works when I'm not even trying then I'm going to enjoy myself the whole time and have enough energy for all the extra stuff.

[Anonymous]

I don't intentionally fabricate myself. I'm not even sure I know how to do that lol. But I am a pretty shy, introverted person, so it does take me a while to open up to someone and be my goofy self.

[DizzyDesii]

I used to try to fabricate myself to match them, but that was years ago. Im nothing but myself these days and if they dont match me then they can get tf on

[Gabbledegak]

Definitely I'm a talkative person to everyone. But if a girl show interest I'll get less talkative to just that girl. I guess I just dgaf about what I say to everyone. Start overthinking about what to say to girl.