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You approach both of them and say you ladies look lovely tonight! Hows your night going?
I'll act like a peaceful rain drop. Advice resembles the name. Good one :)
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@PeacefulRainDrop But how do you talk to two people at once? That doesn't make sense. They're two separate individuals. I don't understand how you could address a question to two people at the same time. It seems like you're treating them as dispensable clones.
You wait until both ladies answer its happened to me plenty of times years ago when I went out with the girls
@PeacefulRainDrop Wow. So they aren't offended? (Because I would be, if I were in their shoes!)
But where do you direct your eyes? Do you focus on a spot on the wall directly between them? Or do you swing your gaze back and forth like a pendulum? And who do you look at while you're in the process of speaking the words?
What I'm saying is how does that all work, exactly?
I am a girl and the way some of these girls are replying I wouldn't know either. Personally I would like someone to approach me, sit next to me at the bar once its free (dont take my friends seat) or ask me whether you can buy me whatever I am drinking.
Don't approach groups, women will fuck it up for you simply because they are jealous that the other woman is getting the attention not them.
Lol I'll keep in mind.
Two girls, one with a following stare, the other with head down. As if it is embarrasing to her.. or would it be jeoulsy. Though later on the 2nd gave signals which I found odd.
2nd usually always had head lowered, as we saw each other weekly
Would that count?
You need a 2nd guy to approach 2 women, your friend talks to the other girl.
First off, respectfully approach them donāt be creepy. Greet Everyone around her and donāt be rude. Talk to her and tell her bla bla bla (whatever made you want to approach her, but do it in the most respectful way you can think of). And if she rejects you then you just move on and donāt mind her at all. If she thinks youāre attractive and wants to hang out with you then congrats she trusted you.
By ātrustedā I mean she didnāt feel uncomfortable by you and what you said.
You have to open the group--you can't just open the girl. If she's with one other chick that's going to be even harder than if she's with a larger group.
I think I get what you mean.. like separate them I assume
If so, how do I get her to be alone then?
Again, if it's just her and another girl it's going to be REALLY difficult to get her alone. Better to have a great conversation get a number (ask for both) and then get out.
If she's with a bigger group you can say you'd like to borrow their friend and you'll bring her right back, then move with her to another part of the bar our outside.
Okay. Should I talk like for 5 mins before leaving.. or less or more?
Doesn't really matter. Good to chat for a bit longer after you get the number, but else all good. Quality is more important.
Very nice. What in general is a good and not cheesy way to approach two. Like a group you said I want to borrow her.. friendly, simple, and not cheesy. Like what in general for two?
You need to start a conversation with both about anything. ANd you most certainly CANNOT open a group by saying you want to borrow their friend. That's only AFTER you opened and built some rapport.
I suck in talking to someone (not formally). How to improve such a skill without these silly line starters. Though I know some starters aren't, I meant 'flirty lines'. So what questions or topics can you open like that with a stranger? The only common thing is atraction. Or can I like ask for simple funny survey and indicate my interest from there
Simple questions work to start the conversation. It helps if you're genuinely interested and is the sort of thing you might ask anyone--not just hot chicks.
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If she gives you choosing signals that likes you then just call her over or go to her and tell her you desire to talk to her. She won't tell you no.
Yes, we definitely are into each other.
One of them was wis two other friends but all looking at me and like giggling.. I know what's going on. I was even waiting her as I know she usually passes by here. Seems they also got it
So, simply just call over by a hand gesture?
You can do that. She likes, she will definitely go.
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Dont approach us with your friends or while weāre with friends. It gets messy af and someone will get intentionally embarassed. I always recommend one on one when approaching
That's the purpose I ask. I'll never approach with friends anyway. I just want to grab her out of the group.. how?
As I almost never see her alone.
That's what I'm asking about
y'all at never without your friends at a bar.
@red324 i dont even go to bars/clubs. But its best that they go in pairs to avoid being taken advantage of. When i used to go to movie theaters, we were always in groups and guys would always approach with their group. It was a huge mess. It better to approach at a grocery store, gas station, gamestop, lol etc
Gas station. Lol I always thought about this. There's always a hottie on the pump next to me but I never say anything.
@red324 you gotta speak up before she hitches a ride with someone else lol
Exactly.. in such situations what to say or do? Like in grocery store or gas station
Hello. Lol
Dont ask me out immediately. If im looking at a game, pretend you know it. āBe like omg you have that game too! We should play together some time if you wanna keep in touch.ā Or if weāre at the gas station and im wearing your fave college shirt, be like āHey thats my team! Do you go to their games much? If so maybe we can keep in touch and attend their next game together?ā Or if im at the store and catch reach the top shelf, come get it down for me. Then say āhey you wanna exchange numbers in case you need me to reach the top shelf for you again?ā
Introduce yourself pay then a compliment, ask what they're doing today. Girls love to talk.
Thank you all for this :)
Yes we loooove to talk. A lot lmao
Unless she's shy. Then you have to do the talking until she opens up.
Her owner? Who said that? Disrespect her environment? I'm not trying to steal her, I'm here because I'm attracted to her and her only you must be direct and honest. You just say hi to everyone then talk to her. Nothing disrespectful here. You are the hunter you are in control.
Iāve done it 2 years ago at work. I was talking to one girl while the other girl was just there
Logical. Thanks for reassuring.
So greet them then talk to her as if only she's there? Or directly just her from the beginning
If you like one of the girls you should talk more to the one that you like a lot more than the one that you donāt like. I didnāt do that but yeah you should interact with both girls. Be more friendly with the girl that you like. Iām not the best at giving but I hope it works
If you know her as a coworker, person, or by face, wait until she has been alone for a few minutes, or in another time when you come across her. Otherwise, just wait until she has been alone for a few minutes. But if she leaves, donāt go after her. That would be creepy.
Any girl is approachable when your motives are pure. If you are looking to get married, build a family, you never have fear when approaching ladies.
But if you want to get her to your bed, all you'd have is fear, anxiety and their likes.
Yeah I think if you approach one girl, the other one will get insecure and jealous.
The thing is u don't approach a chick who'se with another unless u want to get ur ass kicked...
Why would we get our ass kicked because we approach a girl who isn't alone? I have done it. I was polite and neither of them were mad at me.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 if polite than good but if flirty than...
Especially if the guy she's with is overprotective and has jealousy thing...
I was flirty, I wanted one of them. But I wasn't disrespectful.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 good...
Honestly I don't think guys are afraid that girls will beat us when we approach them.
Flirty and cheesy talk are not my things. I despise them
But I bet you got rejected bitter clown š„± @ThisIsMyFifthAccount
Good for me, eh
Who says chick anymore? They're "females". You dont approach anyone unless it's organic. The context will tell you how to do it.
Chicks? Don's be afraid guy like you can only get hoes not real girlfriend if she is a hoes like you then its easy😏
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If she is with the whole "bitch patrol" I wouldn't bother approaching unless you are a verified Chad Thundercock.
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Not bitches.. but like in park or the street or supermarket. And we're both signaling to each other enough. I just want to know best approaching method
It's totally fine to ignore the other. The toher would just think you're rude
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Go for her friend instead of her. It has always worked for me.
What.. how exactly?
When I would go to clubs and I would see a group of girls and a girl caught my attention first I would make my presence known.. You can easily tell if women are looking at you and if course they play hard to get. Just go for the ugly friend instead of the one that caught your attention. She'll come around...
Its all about confidence. If you lack it she will see right through your. Just know what you want, just own it.
Confidence okay with. But just hop directly into a group feels unnatural as human regardless of gender. Anyway I'll keep that in my head
if her friend tries to chase you away respond to her sarcastically and be like "you're the safety friend then?" and then if she continues say "we're gonna get along great I can tell"
You work it to where you catch her alone
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Like when she goes the the bar, juke box or the toliet