oof. 😒 that’s really unfortunate because he’s really nice guy. His personality type wouldn’t strike me as a person proactively trying to sleep with a girl knowing she’s already in a relationship. 😣
So you really think he likes me and is trying to pursue me?
it's likely I would say. he's interested enough to ask you out for a drink, right?
Eh, sorta. We have this running joke about a cocktail and he played truth or dare. I said dare and he dared me to try the cocktail. I said sure I’ll try it but I’m not making it. Then, today he comes by the office I’m in and we chat for a bit then that’s when he asked me if I would be interested in going to a nearby bar to try the cocktail we joke about. In my head I was thinking does he like me more than friends/coworker 🤔
dude, he's playing it. hahaha. he wants to go for a drink. he totally hooked you. good for him. go for a drink with him and flirt a little and see what his reaction is.
Wouldn’t that be emotionally cheating. Lol I have a boyfriend. Our relationship is long distance though but we see each other every other month.. I know my boyfriend wouldn’t care if I hung out with guy coworker, but it’s the fact that I have a feeling that he likes me. Lol I’m ngl I’m *slightly* attracted to my coworker, but can’t see myself actually flirting with him.
well, maybe he's not that serious about his girlfriend. maybe they aren't getting along
No he’s single I have a boyfriend
well if I really liked someone and they had some boyfriend I would let them know. I think it's sometimes hard not to. if he likes you, put yourself in his shoes... you might find it hard not to flirt a bit
I’ll be honest I do have some attraction towards him. Im just confused bc he doesn’t strike me as the type of guy to pursue a woman in a relationship.
well I wouldn't get too worked up about it. he might have a little crush on you... he might be struggling a bit because he likes you. if you don't want to explore it make it clear to him you are serious with your boyfriend
You’re right. Well, if it makes matters worse I agreed to go out lmao. So I’ll come back to update after it happens. 🙈🙈
well, on some level your interested so take it as that. don't lead him on or you'll make matters worse.
I won’t. I’ve been pretty straight forward with him this entire time, minus telling him I’m attracted. He knows I have a boyfriend. I’m just interested to see what his intentions are taking me out for a drink. 🧐
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