I tell her upfront because my other half as u call it would be most likely watching me talk to another Woman in the first place because I like my Women willing to be in to that kind of thing but u see I let mine do all the hunting for me it's call likeing that life. God Bless
I am kind of rude person, or at least people think of me like that in the beginning. And when people get to know me they usually get to know that I am taken and usually they wouldn't flirt with me, and if they do I politely decline them.
I don't understand. Why can't people just say, "I'm not interested" It prevents these yahoos from saying, "You're not with them right now". They ARE with them right now, its called a RELATIONSHIP.
Lmao 🤣 well i mean its hard to say “im not interested” when the dude hitting on you is fine af, possibly a former crush, you’re flattered and you’d totally be hittin on him in return if single. So its just easier to say “I have a boyfriend.” by the way, i know someone who said “Im not interested.” And the person responded “Well get interested” 😂
Lucky guy, I'm sure! On the other end, if the guy is chatting with you but seeing somebody. Eh *shrug* crappy situation. Likely playing the field or just trying to have some fun
No. I don't flirt, well not intentionally, at least until I make it clear that I am not breaking up with my girlfriend. She doesn't care if I flirt with no intention of actually seeing the person. So if I was to Juliet with you. 1) You would know I have a girlfriend and that isn't going to end and 2) I have no intention of interacting with you unless a computer screen separates us.
Yea but im saying its a good way to make others who are not comfortable with that feel dumb. If its someone who doesn't care you're married, so be it. But some of us see marriage and adultery differently
I mean its in the past. Im just saying in general to just let people know ahead of time so that they can choose to continue flirting. Cause you're a really cool dude
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I tell her upfront because my other half as u call it would be most likely watching me talk to another Woman in the first place because I like my Women willing to be in to that kind of thing but u see I let mine do all the hunting for me it's call likeing that life.
God Bless
I am kind of rude person, or at least people think of me like that in the beginning. And when people get to know me they usually get to know that I am taken and usually they wouldn't flirt with me, and if they do I politely decline them.
Oh wow
I'm not inclined to advise any woman to stop flirting with me. The younger she is, the more likely I am to allow her to continue.
Flirt away. I just won’t flirt back. But the gesture is appreciated.
When would you mention your SO
When I think this flirted is getting a little too comfortable.
I don't understand. Why can't people just say, "I'm not interested" It prevents these yahoos from saying, "You're not with them right now". They ARE with them right now, its called a RELATIONSHIP.
Lmao 🤣 well i mean its hard to say “im not interested” when the dude hitting on you is fine af, possibly a former crush, you’re flattered and you’d totally be hittin on him in return if single. So its just easier to say “I have a boyfriend.” by the way, i know someone who said “Im not interested.” And the person responded “Well get interested” 😂
A simple fuck off works too.
Maybe my lack of experience in this causes ignorance. I'm sorry.
I don't get flirted with or to put it more bluntly, haven't in a very long time. Long enough to say I don't. At least IRL.
If you aren't interested shut it down quick. Some guys are abundantly clueless, others are just trying because you gotta shoot your shot
Ohh i see
Yeah from what I've seen you're somewhat sexual content wise here, and that's fun, but it isn't surprising it would attract attention
I dont have a boyfriend atm. But i certainly have someone in mind
Lucky guy, I'm sure! On the other end, if the guy is chatting with you but seeing somebody. Eh *shrug* crappy situation. Likely playing the field or just trying to have some fun
Yea that was in college where that one dude played me and never brought up his girlfriend
No doubt I've seen those games plenty
I usually tell them I am married. This does not happen all that often anymore.
Thats good
Tell him right away, saves us both time
Exactly
I always tell them but depending on the circumstances , I’ll still get their snap or ig
Lmao but for what? Cause they’ll be future customers? You puttin the business first haha
Cause I find them attractive and I need a back up if my man starts acting up.
Lmaoooo you still keep the backup even when taken 🤣
Always.
I keep wanting to take that advice but i can't. Im just focused on just one again and he's just everything
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket
I know. You told me that a year or so ago. I be trying but ima risk it again 🤣 I really just like him lol
Yes I'm forthcoming and with that being said I'm a huge flirt always have been and probably will be
Smdh
Well I honest lol
Unattractive guy: sorry I’m taken
Attractive: gives up her phone number fast especially if he were hotter than her man and he were fit
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I would immediately mention my partner
Good
I'd bring it up eventually, not right away. Would like to have fun with it and see where it is going first.
I am always up front. Even though my lady is like, flirt back. She is not the jealous type. Lol
Wow she wants you to flirt back
I bring it up if she says she's interested romantically. Otherwise it doesn't matter
So you’d flirt until she says that
No. I don't flirt, well not intentionally, at least until I make it clear that I am not breaking up with my girlfriend. She doesn't care if I flirt with no intention of actually seeing the person. So if I was to Juliet with you. 1) You would know I have a girlfriend and that isn't going to end and 2) I have no intention of interacting with you unless a computer screen separates us.
If I'm taken, I'll tell them I'm taken.
Good 🙌
Instantly I build that wall and shut them down.
Thats good
I’ll let them know that I’m taken
Future🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thats legit me lmao
Lmfaooooo turrible
I let people know I'm taken before they ask
I had to ask 🤣
You weren't flirting with me so I didn't think it was necessary.
But you were flirting and even admitted that you're a flirt. Why not say “hey im married but i flirt” which is still weird to me but yea lmao
That's just how I am. My wife knows what I do. I'm married, I'm not dead
Yea but im saying its a good way to make others who are not comfortable with that feel dumb. If its someone who doesn't care you're married, so be it. But some of us see marriage and adultery differently
I'm sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable. Please forgive me
I mean its in the past. Im just saying in general to just let people know ahead of time so that they can choose to continue flirting. Cause you're a really cool dude
Ok. Got it. You're cool and hilarious. You always make me laugh
Good lol!