OK, so when I approach a new female to try to talk and get her number, they blow me off. I have asked some that do talk to me and say that I sound and look like a player, but I'm not. Can you tell me some good opening lines that won't make a female think that I'm a player or I want to sleep with them. Sometimes I don't even bother trying to talk to women unless I know them or we see each other in a regular basis. please help!