I had a girlfriend while me and this other girl had crushes on each other. About 6 months ago me and this other girl were going to a party (while I had a girlfriend who would not be coming)and while pre-gaming in a friends room she was telling me she had been waiting a while to give me a surprise. at the party she came up to me and was like time for your surprise, she looked all gloomy eyed, but I had a girlfriend at the time and so I walked away just kinda blowing her off. I already sent her a message about a week ago asking about what the surprise would have been since I am now single, but she didn't respond. should I give up on her, or what? she lives in a different city than i, about 3 hours away, but we go to the same college. should I ry to do anything? or is there no good possible outcome?