How do you know if you're just an option?

How do you know if a guy is keeping you around and hitting you up cause you're just an option? Are there signs to show? Cause lets face it when you're really into someone you're kinda blinded by his charm :/


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  • If you know when he's taken and he only hits you up when he breaks it off with her. If he's single and you are two but he never makes it an offcial thing.

    • what if he texts, hangs out with you and flirts but he never officially asks you out on a date ? (you've never kissed or anything) and he hits up a lot of other girls similarly? does that make him a player and does it mean you're just an option?