Yeah by all means I wouldn't take things further then a hook up because I'm on track to become a police officer and she's only got to hint something about rape and my whole world ends. I meant to just have flirty fun.. yeah I wouldn't even exactly call him my friend he seems happy enough with her but yeah.. I think its really different depending on age like my parents are 10 years apart and have been happily married for just over 30 yrs...
But thirty five and forty five is less big then fifteen and twenty five. So I'd say stick to the rule until you're twenty five. And flirty fun, as long as you don't lead them on you're interested in more, it's okay, I guess.
I agree with part of this, that age gap is twisted at best, also if your looking at becoming a police man be careful because some people will use it against you if you screw them over, it happened to my cousin, he cheated on his ex she told cops he drugged and raped her and it took a few years to get career back on track (police always take the womens side on those sorta things)
Also apply it to older people and you'll see the age gap grow, eg. 50year old = 32years old minimum
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