So, you're on better terms now, then? Wink wink :-)
Well one could always hope. I guess I just don't give up (for good or bad that's the truth)
I'm in a similar spot. Sorry to hear it. Some people just take things for granted or don't know they have to work on the relationship as well.
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Wow, I'd kill to have that. I don't give her much now just because it got really old being the only giver. I think some girls assume guys don't need that feedback like a girl does. Just sex once in a while and he should be happy. After a while, those other things mean more than sex to me.
Tell her that you want more love and affection and she should give it back. Good love like that is hard to come by anymore. I think it is just from all the game playing people do in relaitonship in fear of getting hurt. Your girlfriend should be happy...very lucky having a guy that is willing to give :)
I've told her but then when she does something it feels faked, like "I have to do this". I think she thinks the fact that she stays with me should be enough.
I honestly didn't know that guys actually reciprocated. I know some friends who get flowers, but I can't seem to get a guy that does that. If I bring it up, he says it's because of being anti-consumer. I don't know, maybe it's just an excuse to not do it ? I would really appreciate getting something like that, I have only ever gotten flowers once from a guy. That is it. So it's something I would highly appreciate.
Just be careful, I used to shower my girl with flowers, spontaneous gifts, etc. Over time it got less and less because it was totally one sided--I'm lucky if I get a lame birthday present. It turns into resentment which is poison for a relationship. Just watch yourself, that's all.
Yupp, I know exactly what you mean. My ex boyfriend was like that, always taking me for granted. Hence he is the ex :P My current boyfriend is a good guy, I just don't think he wants to spend the money (he is cheap). I know that sounds rude to say, but I understand. He comes from a big family and probably can't justify purchasing flowers that just die. He did bring me a bottle of wine a few weeks ago, I was floored :D It was amazing! I made sure I freaked out about it and keep talking about it to this day.
I prefer a house plant over flowers that just die. I good plant will be around for years just like a good man should be lol.
Can't argue with that! I wouldn't mind a nice houseplant either. Makes the house feel fresh!
Good for you. Hopefully he does similar for you from time to time.
You're welcome! And, I hope he treats you likewise :-)
Uhmm, what have you been drinking?
Believe me, I know all too well. That's one reason I posted the question.
Not all women are like that STOP GENERALIZING!
You're right, didn't mean to generalize. Just meant mine doesn't, even if you say you like it :-(
;D you know I'm just kidding
Some women (like me) do things all the time for their man; it sounds like you guys just need to find a woman who believes in give and take.