Totally! I never liked any of the gender roles in dating (or in life really...)
Well I'll have to disagree with them... I'm pretty sure not all guys will ask every girl they're interested in out, I know this because they said so themselvesAlso even if he isn't already attracted to you then going out helps build an attraction and there's nothing wrong with the girl making that effort if she's really interestedI don't think any of my relationships were really that into me (more than a friend) but in the end it worked and I'm glad I made the effort ^^
Guys want those same things. I'll just say we have essentially every movie ever with a good looking guy getting the girl. It only seems to be recently that movies like "She's Out Of My League" have started to exist.
lol then there needs to be more movies with modern roles
Well ideally it should be a two way street. It's easier when the guy gives us girls enough hints showing that he's interested. From there I get my cue to approach if he hasn't done so already. I'm sure it's the same for guys. It's not really about gender roles for me but it's about having him put in an equal amount of effort. Can't make it too easy for them. If he isn't attracted to you already it's not worth approaching because he will eventually lose that if he sees more potential elsewhere
Well even then if you ask him out and take him somewhere it can help build attraction
So are you confident or shy?
I'm confident but I have an anxiety disorder that makes me shy away from new people at first. It's hard to explain...sounds dumb but I would just rather keep to myself really [:
Now that makes me ashamed...How many decent girls have you seen?
One in a million? Seriously it can't be THAT uncommon lol
Well maybe one in a hundred thousand.
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No sorry I'm a 40 year old manlol just kidding =D ^_^
my latest work in progress has initiated as much as I have. she is in hot pursuit.
What's so bad about being asked out?
I will never understand guys that think it's a bad thing.
not for me. but some men can't deal with it is all I'm saying.