any other tips how should I be confident for her.
so not me basically
it takes time to learn to be self confident. you're not doomed.
I hope but I am nervous
I know it is understandable but my fears feel so strong. saying hi to a girl is one of the hardest things I can think off.
you've just gotta put yourself out there. come out of your shell. easier said than done, blah blah, but really, there's no easy way to overcome shyness.
so it will be very hard
sure. I mean, depends on the person, but... I dunno. for me it was hard, but totally worth it.
I hope it works, I hope it can be soon my biggest fear is that I will never meet a girl.
this is going to sound like I'm just being a bitch, but I really mean this. stop whining about this on the internet and go out and take some action. you're not getting anywhere on here.
I just need help, I need to hear the right piece of advice.
what are you waiting for? really...
I don't know if you really understand how shy I feel.
I don't know if you realize how true my advice is really. Trust me, I was painfully shy too once upon a time.
I will try but I just wish I had someone who I could just talk to and someone how could give help along the wya.
this is about you, man. I'm trying to help you here, but it sounds to me like you're trying to make every excuse not to get out there already.
I want to get out there I really do I just would not know what to say or anything.
just do itttttttttttttttttttttt. honestly, what is anyone supposed to tell you here? we can't do it for you (or tell you exactly what to do).
your right and I understand that I just need some guidance I suppose.
you'll learn best from experience. just go for it, man.
ok I will try, I hope I can do it.
um, it's not a matter of ability. you CAN. you just have to swallow your pride and f***ing do it.
ok, I just hope it goes well.
any little step counts, as long as you keep going with it.
It was not really about much though
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Yes. Especially the dog part. :D My boss (who I already thought was attractive) became 5000x cuter when he talked about how his dog tackles him when he comes home and my boss loves on him "oojaabuddywhosabigdogthatsmyboyeeee!"
wish I had a dog
So get one. =P Everyone needs at least one!
I can't really get one at this time my apratment does not allow pets.
Hmm... would they allow rabbits?
I doubt it probbly only fish.
That's sad. =[ But not a big deal! Talk about your mom instead. Do you have a good relationship with her?
I do but I would not know how to say that when I am talking to a girl.
Just work it into the conversation. My cute boss did this too. He talked about "My mom wanted to buy me lunch today and I was like *laugh* 'thats okay mom' but she was like 'well I got you your favorite!' and I was like *cute smile* 'okay mom thanks.'"
I guess I can try somehting like that.