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Messaging a guy first, a bad idea?

I recently met a guy who is a friend of some friends. I'm very attracted to him as every other girl is. All of my friends talk about him and even random people comment on his picture about how hot he is. So, it may be a stretch for me to talk to him. But when we did talk he was very funny and we connected.

I met him later on again and he knew who I was. our mutual friend made sure to tell me that he is single, and to spread the word. I have no idea why. I added him on Facebook and he hasn't talked at all. Would it be desperate or weird if I messaged him first? wouldn't he message me if he really was interested?
Messaging a guy first, a bad idea?
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