Okay, so, my boyfriend likes to point out that he shows affection differently then I do. I write him poetry and give him foot massages and the like to be romantic. When I ask him why he isn't romantic he says that his version of being romantic is rough-housing (which I hate) and driving me to CVS at like 10pm. I understand, but I still feel neglected and not cherished. He doesn't do anything that makes me feel special and I'm worried about bringing it up to him. Should I change my parameters of what "being romantic" is and get used to it or should I express my concerns to him and risk an argument?