The guy I like is a year and a half older than me, and I don't really know him that well yet. Recently we've talked a bit on Facebook, and we have the same taste in humour, films and music, but I've messaged him a couple of times to no reply, and I went in for a hug the other day when saying goodbye and it ended up being an brief, awkward, to-the-side-at-arms-length hug. I haven't spoken to him much in person. We're in the same friendship group. Should I continue trying to chat to him as usual, ask him out, flirt more? Will I scare him off or freak him out by showing him I like him a little more? That's what I'm most worried about, as he can be a bit of a douche sometimes.