Thanks I will try
I hope I can stay stay calm and meet one
We all have different gifts and positive attributes that make us who we are :) if nothing else, remember you are the only YOU and you have a lot to offer, right? believe this and you should do just fine. It's normal to be a littler nervous at first but that's just the way it goes, don't sweat it.
Your awesome thanks for helping I hope I can succeed. I am always nervous and have probably missed many opportunities.
:D! thanks, as are you! you can do this lol don't worry if you get a little nervous, it gets easier with time.
I know nervous is OK but I hardly know how to say hi
you're still being hard on yourself. who cares if you're a little shy. take her advice and don't sweat it
sure you do, you just don't know how to say hi without feeling confident and knowing you have a lot to offer! I suggest coming to terms with how YOU feel about YOU, work on that! understand that you have something that no one else does so you're one of a kind..You mean to treat her right, yes? YEAH you are a good guy, yes? YEAH ..she'd be lucky to have you! keep all this in mind and than just say it : ) "Hi, how's it going?" easy as pie.
It might not be easy as pie but ok
Ok. yeah..not easy as pie lol but seriously, You have to work on your before you can feel comfortable "sellin' it" to someone else..quickest easiest way to do build some confidence and self worth is to realize that you are the only you there is, while that may sound generic or cliche, it's true! Each person has some good things to offer and you have believe this so you can be confident in yourself. Try becoming friends with a girl frist..takes some pressure off and you can only go up from there.
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How long should it take
well a guy can catch my full attention in maybe a few weeks, like 2 or 3...if he does what I mention above. However, I would recommend only putting in that much time & effort if you're actually trying to get serious with that person...and it takes weeks because I personally don't like too much too fast. Guys who ask me out right after meeting me kinda scare me away.
I would need a while to know I like her
yea I know what you mean...well once you get a girl's attention, then both of you can really feel each other out...if there's someone you're interested in right now, then I say go for it! get some practice in.
What if she is not shy and expects moves now
then just be real with her. continue to be yourself and don't try to speed up for her, if she asks what's taking you so long, then let her know that you're not the type of guy to make moves too quickly. it just might turn her on...whatever you do, do not pretend that you wanna move fast because then she may be expecting you to go a lot further & it will bite you in the ass if you're not ready...trust me lol
That doesn't help
don't listen to this chick. she's known around here as someone who gives really negative sh*tty answers. I get vibes that she's way unattractive too so I don't know what this answer of hers is all about
@toolt00lLMAO my really negative and sh*tty must be why I get sh*tloads of messages telling me I was right by the same of guys and girls have b*tched me out.As for being known on here? I've seen your name once and it was 2 seconds ago on another question.If you knew anything for what I was known for it would be a hottie whose "shallow and has high standards". LMAO XDIt's not negative that most people want to have their potential boyfriend/girlfriend be people they find attractive.
But Your question said nothing on how to flirt or talk to girls
@QAMy question?I think you mean my answer.Flirting tips and how to talk to girl tips won't work because there isn't some magical tip(s) that work for all/most girls.You need to work on your body language reading skills, public speaking skills, and conversational skills if you want generalized advice that may apply to the majority.
@QAI did answer the flirting tips and how to talk to girls bit as related to me and my attention.If you want to talk to me or flirt with me- be attractive.