He said I shouldn't be bothered about him talking to another girl and flirting with her on Facebook, but how can I ignore these red flags? We recently slept together after seeing each other awhile and he said he wasn't going to hurt me or mess me about, he said he doesn't want me to go anywhere. But is he capable of cheating? All this flirting happened AFTER he slept with me, and he knew it bothered me but he just carried on flirting with her! And she's not even a good catch, she's a skanky single mum from a rough town whos had more guys than I can count. How could he prefer that over me? I have a good job, self respect and treat him with kindness! He says he doesn't want her but I can see it in black and white! Why would he still hold on to me if he's got her? Please tell me what to do!