I was more thinking of a girl I could get to know. I am not sure if your suggestion could work.
How could you not get to know her during those things? Having a cup of hot cocoa? All you do is talk. Give her a memorable date! If you put a little effort into it and don't just go with the cliche things, you'll stand out that much more.
I guess but this is almost a date before a first date like get to know who she is and stuff. Would that still work
I don't see why not or why you're fighting this so much. How are you supposed to get to know her if you don't talk to her? And yeah, you can do something fun like ice skating. Just SPENDING TIME WITH HER is going to tell you her personality, and her yours.
I don't want to fight what you are saying but I don't want to come on to strong.
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