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Is it bad I'm not making much of an effort?

A couple years ago, I fell for this girl. I put a lot of effort in tying to get her (I don't mean smothering her, I mean in playing the game correctly). This included texting, talking, and hanging out. I thought about her a lot and I liked her a lot.

Since then I haven't run into a girl that I've wanted to put much effort in. I'll like text once and never text again. I'll talk like 3 times and never talk again. For whatever reason, the thought of putting more effort in just seems like too much work.

Is it because that maybe I haven't found a girl yet that I think is worth that much work? Or should I be putting more effort into making a connection and seeing what happens?
Is it bad I'm not making much of an effort?
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