But don't you see how intimidating it is for guys approaching you while you're with friends?
Is it? I was in the library the other day with my friend. We were both trying to revise. Well, I was. She was texting. And this guy just came near me with his friends and spared up a conversation with me. Maybe he didn't care because he had more friends with him, lol. I don't feel comfortable with guys approaching me when I'm alone. I feel safer with my friends and more comfortable,.
Have you ever approached a guy before?
Hmm. I was in a supermarket once with my friend. I was a little hyper and this cute guy came and stood next to me in the dessert section. So, I just flirted a little with him and that's about it. My friend liked him more than me though, haha.
Well I guess you'll have to take my word for it. When you are alone it's easier because it's just you. I mean it's still hard, but easier. When you are with friends it's harder. For me I feel like I'm putting my heart on the line and giving you the power to do with it however you wish. Either reject me, accept me or mess with me. And I'm already wondering what you are thinking of me. Whether I'm attractive enough for you, whether you'll just laugh at me approaching you...
And when you are with friends I feel it exponentially than when you are alone. Like you could all be giggling at me and ill feel all self conscious and back down. It's difficult Juliet lol. trust me.
Oh, I know its difficult for guys, Kain, I do. I never said it wasn't. Just answering how *I* would rather be approached. I'm a weirdo though so take no heed to me. :-)
"Plus, it is cuter and a bit more personal that way."Precisely. :-)
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You don't like being approached? lol
No, I'd feel it was just a prank, or he's trying to mug me, or something. :S