I like my TA from University. Should I leave it or not?

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I like my TA from University. Should I leave it or not?

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So I kinda like my TA from University. We hung out a bit last year, but then he said we couldn't see each other anymore. I met him at the start of this school year again and didn't know what to do. When he asked if I wanted to grab coffee or lunch sometime, I said I don't know because I wanted to play hard to get and I legit didn't know what to do. I never got a text and lo and behold he's my TA for one of my classes-awkward.

Things were okay, and then after Halloween, my friend and I were talking about it and she said she saw me making out with a guy, and I'm scared my TA heard. Since then he's flirted with me, but a little more with this other girl :(

I am done my labs now, and I don't have his number but he has mine. I was really sad when labs ended cause I couldn't joke around anymore and see him. So anyways, I have his email, but I don't want to use it because when I emailed him at start of the year on how to do a lab report I asked him that we should hang out sometime, but he never replied back to the hanging out part.

I don't know what to do, I'm heading into finals and I'm so stressed from school and my "friends" stabbing me in the back, worried about Christmas presents I got for these bitches, and what should I do about him.

I'm tempted to just leave it because I don't want to ask again and get hurt again like I did last year. Would you just leave it and see? I'm pretty shy and I don't want to look stupid, I've been talking with a friend of his, but I'm scared his friend thinks I'm weird or something, ha ha.

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I think you should leave it since he did hurt you and said he did not want to hang out with you. I think you gave him his chance for redemption and he blew it big time. And if you made out with another guy it wasn't none of his buisness. Be careful with your friends and telling them everything. I agree their are good friends and bad ones and the bad ones wil always stab you in the back.

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That's what I was thinking. But he's so cute! And I know, it's just my roommate should've never went to them and they stuck their noses in my business. They deleted me off Facebook cause I deleted my roommate and were giving me a taste of my own medicine. They had no business interfering-and I didn't know I had to get their permission to delete people off MY Facebook page. I readded my roommate, but I really want her off of it.
coolbreeze

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The cute guys tend to be stuck up and play more hard to get sometimes. You seem like a cute girl who should not have no problem finding another guy.That sucks that your roommates were being in your buisness like that. and that whole deleting friends of Facebook things is just so childesh. You delete one then the rest delete you. Yeah fb sucks they ask permission for a lot of dumb things. even in a relationship the other person has to approve. That is good you readded her. You will find somebody.:)
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You don't need permission to delete somebody-I was being sarcastic in that I didn't know I had to get those bitches permission to delete my roommate. But yeah they had no right to get involved. I got them Christmas presents before this happened, I really want to return them ha ha. This other girl, her roommate was mean to me last month, so I deleted her. Now her roommate barely talks to me. I texted her last night to see when she's done classes to give her a gift, but she never replied back
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coolbreeze

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Wow you got them all Christmas presents. You are definitley the best roommate. I think you should return them. But lets say if they happen to get you presents the that would look bad. I think you are being the beter person by giving them their gifts. It should make them feel bad and if you can't give it to them then try to return them and get your money back. You seem like a nice genuine good person with a good heart. I hope you can find a guy that can appreciate that quality.
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Awe thank-you, I am a good person. Just kinda snapped this time, but they all took it to another level.
coolbreeze

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You are very welcome. :) I agree they did take it to another level. and they should not had treated you like that.

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