"usually it makes the guy to know the value of what he is getting"Not at all. It's annoying and makes me think less of her.
i think it depends on the situation. I don't like to use this analogy :P but assume you went for fishing. if you just brings up the bait with waiting for the fish to catch that, then nothing will happen. but the play hard to get works, when you already know the guy likes you but you just make him wait alittle bit...and again I emphasize that its so important HOW much you make him wait :P
That analogy makes no sense. If you want the fish, you leave the bait in the water so the fish can bite. If you play hard to get (take the bait before a fish can get it) you are just wasting time for both you and the fish.
hey...i didn't say that I'm a fan of playing hard to get! although I might do it sometimes depends on the person...but I just explained you what is the reason behind it, I didn't say if that's good or bad. and about my analogy, I said if you just take the bait too fast, then you are right its just wasting of time. but if you let the fish get it then instead of taking him out so fast, make it alittle bit slower, then that would get to the result I mentioned at first!
i know that you are probably so mad right now of the girl doing so to u...and I'm sorry about it...i just wanted to clarify why some girls do that ;)
It wouldn't make you think less of her because you wouldn't know she's doing it. And it's not wasting time, you're even getting to know each other a little bit in this process.I'll explain the fish thing in my words. If you just let the bait sit there the fish can eat it and spit it back out no problem. Or the fish might not even see/be interested in the bait. If you move it around a little bit the fish will chase it and make efforts to get the bait and WALA! Hooked.
Ty!.. that's sweet of you :)
you're welcome :]
until you do it to the guy who doesn't respect you, who then uses your insecurity against you, f***s you, doesn't call you back, and leaves you bitching to your friends about how all guys are a**holesGame-playing isn't empowering. It just makes you feel good by treating someone else like crap. Saying it's empowering is like saying pushing someone into the mud is empowering.
hey dude I didn't say I actually play hard to get.. I'm just saying that's y other girls do it... I think it's awful to do that.. I wouldn't want a guy to play mind games on me just because he can.. so I'm not gonna do it to him.. hope you understand
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Well if he stops pursuing you it's easy to feel like you did something wrong or maybe you mis read him in the first place I guess
So if she knew I liked her she wouldn't be doing this sh*t lol?
I wouldnt.. I would be happy if the guy I like likes me back..why risking to lose the guy? :)