seems like I may have gotten the disappearing act from a guy I really fell for who seemed to be falling for me too. :( I'm pretty heartbroken. if he never contacts me, is it better for me to send a text confronting him (without going nuts) just saying I'm worth more than that, or is it pointless? my friends say I should they say it shows I respect myself and am calling him out on his behavior. my reaction is if he really cared he would never just disappear he would treat me with respect and end it even if just by text. so why bother texting a guy even to confront him if he doesn't care enough to break up with me and instead just disappears. what's everyone's thoughts on that?