I like this girl. Unfortunately, so do a few other guys. Whenever I see her in a bar, she is always surrounded by other guys trying to get her into their bed. They are all 'tough lads', so it's quite intimidating. Because of this (and shyness) I've never been able to approach her. How can I get over this? Could anybody give me some advice as to how I should approach her? When is the best time to approach a girl? Any do's and dont's? Any ways to steal her attention away from the other guys? Do it myself or get a friend to tell her? I don't know, but any advice is welcome. Many thanks.