hmm.. yes I don't know cutesy isn't really my thing ;) anyways, I was trying to figure out what to do about someone else not asking questions.. it makes things awkward. & I can't just keep talking because I'm not comfortable. I talk alot, I ask questions alot-with anyone else.. but I'm not able to if I like someone, who is also not asking questions. he's not quiet. just doesn't ask questions.
yea.. this guy doesn't ask Q, & he gets defensive about all sorts of questions.. nt all, but enough that it makes things stressful. I don't feel like asking just to find out he doesn't want to be asked.. or hell sort of brush off a question he has asked me or change the subject etc.he likes to spend a lot of time with me- & pays a lot f attention to everything I say-unless its a question ;) -i don't think he doesn't like me.. its just almost too difficult.
Some people are like that. They don't like to be asked too many questions cause they feel like your interrogating them. But for now, just enjoy the moment with him and don't ask questions. Usually what I tell people is this, "sorry if I'm asking too many question but I just don't like to assume" and its true, if you don't ask your left alone trying to figure things out on your own. If he pays attention to everything you say and loves to spend time with you then he's a keeper!
:) I don't ask many Q at all.. & its not so much that which bothers me. I mind him not asking me Q. its difficult for me to talk to him-& he thinks I just don't like him. but I can't ask him to ask me questions.. that's sort of something someone has to want to do,i was thinking of how difficult it is for m to talk-ot in general ,just with him.. & that's how I came to the lack of questions existing between us.its not his fault I can't think around him.. but the lack of Q make it much worse.
Ask him to play 21 questions with you. Me and my guy used to play that and we used to have fun...Mind you I'm 21 and he's 22. We both enjoyed it since we'll ask each other sexual questions. Like, "whats your fantasy" and it kinda helps for when you guys become a couple you already know what he likes or dislikes. Try it and see what he says.
hmm.. yea its a very good idea.. but I'm worried hell think its stupid& I don't like the fact I am worried that hell think its stupid. hmm.. I suppose if he thinks its stupid, he's not a very good candidate .. but since he doesn't like asking Q, I can't imagine he'd like the idea.. but I don't know I guess I can try.. ;)
hey don't laugh;) not everyone is capable of asking questions.. but yea, those make sense ;)
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