How do you make friends who are girls? I mean the thing is I am a grad student so I don't have much free time.
well going to social events (say a battle of the bands as an example) you can approach someone and ask a casual question that won't freak them out, like do you know anyone in any of the bands? or hey what do you think of this song? if she has a drink in hand, ask her how the drinks there are. (just don't have a drink in your hand please). if she's giving you bad vibes like barely making eye contact or hardly answering your question leave. if not try to keep a convo rolling and get her name.
Any other ideas or anything.
you can have ice breakers with you (I don't mean the mints, tho those work too) but things that can get people to approach you. this guy wore a shirt that said "Bazinga" on it and its a reference from a show called the big bang theory that I love. my friend and I noticed and we called him over and became friends with him just cause of that. (he was not above average looking either). we thought he was awesome all due to the fact we all had that one thing in common. his nickname is now bazinga
So... what could I do.
what are you into? don't be a fake, only use ice breakers that are very you. if you're a sports fan, wear a jersey from your favorite team, some girls are also into sports. bring gum around and offer it to groups of people maybe. co-ed groups also not just groups of girls. you could wear odd color contact lenses, like purple or something to get peoples attention (nothing too extreme) and only if that's something you're kinda into. I can't decide for you because I don't know what your style is.
Understood, I just want to make friends at least.
ya that's the first step. good luck.
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