OK so this guy I've started talking to is so my type. The problem is he uses the "I'm still heart-broken over my ex" ordeal & it drives me insane. But yet he still flirts not taking it too far but to make me want him. So I think I should stop trying cause its a turn off if I take it too serious. But its really killing me inside. I don't understand how he doesn't want to be with me if we are so good together? What do I do? Should I stop trying or how do I play it cool but still get him to want me?