It's a strange paradox. If say, my friend asked me to rate him from 1-10, there's no way I would give him a high rate. He just physically isn't that attractive. But I've found myself more attracted to him than some of the more attractive guys I have been involved in--certainly this has to do a LOT with personality (we're so similar I almost feel like I'm talking to myself sometimes) and also with his personal charm, because he's really good with words and very charming. So the question is, I suppose, why am I more attracted to this man I wouldn't rate as attractive than I am to attractive men? And has anyone else experienced this weird phemonena?