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Why is it so hard to say NO?

Well there is some guys that have a crush on me, and they have told me. I know they are quite insecure guys, and I don't want to be with them but I have a hard time telling them. They are great guys and all but I'm not attracted to them, and I'm afraid I will break their hearts but I just feel like I'm leading them on by not telling them I don't want anything with them. I tried telling one of them and he, I don't know if he did not heard me properly or what, but he did as nothing happened like if I never told him I did not want anything with him. I'm not a bad person and I don't want to be known by breaking guys hearts because I'm not a player. Do you think I'm hurting them more by not telling them or if I tell them? I still want them to be my friends, but do you think it's possible? Do you think I could do something for them to stop crushing on me? But not like being a bitch so they are not my friends anymore. Any help? Thanks
Why is it so hard to say NO?
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