What should I do to make a boy attracted to me?

[Ricolientje]

Don't listen to the girls on this, that's romance novel bullsh*t.

If you want an honest answer on this one from people we need pictures. Otherwise I can just tell you this.

Go workout a lot, run 5 miles a day every other day. On the other days you go lift heavy weight (no you won't get muscular. That takes women multiple years) Look at what you're eating right now, clean it up, less sugar more meat, 1800-2000 calories a day should be plenty. If you're going to run more, calculate how much you need and add that in milk or something.

At some point you'll have a body that needs exactly those amount of calories at your activity level. And a bmi of 24... that's a good bmi for a fairly muscular guy. get down to a bmi of 19-21 and get your bodyfat to 18%.

Anyway, the girls might be right. There will be SOMEONE out there that loves you for who you are. What you look like etc.. but how can you be sure you like that guy?

Appearance is the first thing we see, it's what catches our interest. It's also the most important factor until after college.

If anyone finds this insulting, let me know, I did not mean it that way. English isn't my first language after all.

[walkingonadream]

Just be confident and yourself. There will be someone out there who thinks you're attractive and great. While looks do play a role in attraction it's not the most important thing. As long as you're comfortable in your own skin, someone will be attracted to you. Don't pretend to be someone you're not or do something that you're not comfortable doing to seem attractive, if they're worth it you won't even have to do all of that.

[Anonymous]

be your self ! be happy and confident in your own skin! do things in life that make you feel your true self, don't worry about superficial things as it will only give you feelings of insecurity and not be attractive to guys, but you can do things to love yourself like a nice outfit or things that make you feel good and unique.