this really cute girl that used to like me messaged me again recently, we never got anywhere, and Haven't talked in a while. I think its been killing both of us. specifics please on a testy situation, I'm curious to see if I really tell her I miss her and stuff, and see whether she ever cared at all. what kind of responses should I expect. I know everyone's different but there's always at least two ways this could go, bad to ugly am I right? how could I phrase it so it isn't mushy, cliche, or scary/repulsive...?