i don't know how to talk to guys. I don't know how to be comfortable with them. I don't know how to not be/seem desperate. I don't have the slightest clue what guys are looking for. what would attract them to me? what could a say/talk about/ask that would get them to like me? I don't know how to flirt. I don't know how to not be clingy. should I ask guys to hang out with me? should I tell them I think they're cute when I first start talking to them? Help me?