I had a fling with a woman who had pursued me for years. We spent quality time with each other. I sent her little text messages letting her know I was thinking about her. I even bought her a shirt she had been eyeballing in a store that we were in. She even sent me a sexy video of her that I still cherish. But we live too far apart, so I started seeing someone who lives in the same town as I do. When I told this woman, she bassically told me to go to hell and never contact her again. That was back in February. I am happy with this new woman, but I can't forget the other one. Why is that? Is this normal?