I have been trying to find a guy who is interested in me for 5 years now but I have always been forced to take the first step, the second, the third... I have always been forced to do everything! I have School, work, friends and hobbies that takes up my time too and honestly I don't feel like I want to throw away time on relationship when I'm the only one working for it! Should I stop flirt and ignore men until they mature enough? Around what age do they?