You set up a date with a girl... The place, the day, all of that is set... Then blow her off, about a week to two weeks later you're texting her again after you BLEW HER OFF?! WTF? It makes me laugh how common this is. How a guy can be a total flake and then really think I'm going to give him attention again... Why? What goes though your heads? What is your male rationalization of this behavior? These are guys in their 20s. On a side note, its a first date. You have NO idea what she's like in bed.