Questions about the mind of girls. Interested.

[Sicana_184]

1. Depends. How attractive is this guy? hahaha. I more of less think of whether or not we could be compatible and if I can see myself with that guy. Sexual thoughts come a bit later. It's not the first thing that pops into my head when I see a good looking guy but if I have enough time to check them out thoroughly (discreetly of course) and analyze them it comes up. When I say analyze what I mean is I'll watch them to see how they behave. If they are with friends I like to see the kind of personality/attitude/manners they have. I don't imagine sexy time with every cute guy I see though hahaha.

2. I hate rejecting people. I'm awful at it. Sometimes I feel like I could get stuck with a guy I don't like just because I'm bad at turning them down. I might tell my friends about it just because it's flattering. Not in a mocking way. Sometimes, it's in a horror story way though because believe me I've had some serious creepers making passes at me. No, I am not talking your average guy looking for a chance-- I'm talking cut your skin off and wear it the next day kind of creepers.

3. If that guy is subtle about it maybe. I am shy around men so overly forward guys scare me. I would rather they gave me their number or email. If I want to contact you I will. I don't like giving people who I've met of the street my contact info. I fear stalkers.

[mistymiss82]

1. Not necessarily. When I think about sleeping with an attractive guy, I have to wait and see if I'm intrigued by the words that come out of his mouth. But I know if I'd be willing to sleep with him eventually after about 5 minutes of interesting conversation.

2. Yeah probably tell my friends I got hit on but I wouldn't boast about rejecting him. But it depends on how many guys have hit on me that day. If he was the only guy that hit on me then I'd tell my friends. If many guys hit on me that day I'd probably lump him into a group with the other guys, giving him some anonymity.

3. See the thing is, I don't need a guy to be amazingly hot to give him my number. He just has to be attractive in some way. As long as the guy has a nice smile, average body/height, isn't too old, isn't balding, generally hygienic, and dresses relatively well then I'm happy with his looks. But what will definitely get my number is that look combined with a lot of charm. I'm big on witty banter. I like to be mentally stimulated. Charm and humor go a long way.

PS. I hope you have a great year as well :)

[Anonymous]

1. When I see a guy that I find attractive I wonder if he's smart, if he has a degree or at least a decent job, and whether or not he's single. Among other things I wonder if he would be a listener or a talker and if he has a pure heart. I don't think about sleeping with him automatically...but I do casually wonder what it would be like to wake up in his arms after a night together.

2. If a guy walks up to me and wants to get closer, I will accept him if he seems funny, smart, and there is some kind of mutual attraction. I will reject him if he seems really creepy, desperate, or flat out is not my type at all. I never tell anyone about these encounters; I like to keep these things private.

3. To be honest his smile and his eyes. If there is no hidden motive and his smile seems to be genuine and pure (not forced in any manner) and if he is able to keep moderate eye contact then this increases his chances, but only after what I mentioned in #2.

Hope you have a happy new year as well!

[95imprezaSTI]

1. They do

2. They do

3. Urge to give your number? I doubt evolution has had enough time to develop this in human females so far.

[May31]

1. If I see a guy that I find attractive, the first thing I think about is how I would approach him, and if he would be interested in me in anyway. If we start talking & hanging out then, I might start thinking about it, but probably not as often as you'd think.

2. If a guy wants to get my number and I reject him, I don't always go and tell my friends. Most of the time they won't even know that a guy came up to me XD

3. What increases my urge to give a guy my number is if I like him. By like him I mean as more than a friend. Like having a crush or something. I like to get to know if him first though...I don't give a guy my number like that...

[upood]

1. If I am attracted to him then yes, I think of that, but I don't actually think of it in explicit terms like 'mmm he'd be good in bed' its more so I like the overall person/would date him thus sleep with him at some point. I'm not undressing him with my eyes though, unless It's that time of month and I'm reaaaally wanting it bad haha

2. If I reject him I try to be polite about it. I may tell a close friend if she asks but for the most part no, I keep it to myself. I don't go see my friends and say "hey guys, guess what I did today, totally rejected this loser.." lol. We are normal, same as when a guy rejects a girl.

3. If I feel chemistry/attraction I'll do it, he has to be normal and polite and I have to feel like he doesn't do this to every other girl, as in, my number is the only one he'll get... I want to feel special and like he's going for me and me only haha

[learningthegame16]

1) No, it doesn't. I actually met a guy who was gorgeous in every aspect but I couldn't bring myself to think of him in that way. It was kind of an inferiority complex. I couldn't imagine a physical relationship with someone so breath taking and someone like me. However, I have thought about sleeping with guys that I thought were very attractive. So it's not an easy answer. However I can say that my first thought when I meet an attractive guy isn't about sleeping with him, it's more along the lines of 'Whoa, he's cute. I wonder what he's like?'

2) No, I don't tell all my friends about it unless it's relevant. Like if I warning them about being interested in a guy who I'd known was crazy and would stalk them.

3) A friendly smile, intelligent conversation and a couple of corny jokes will have fumbling in my bag for a pen.

Hope this helps.

[alicel]

when I see an attractive guy I might not think about sex right away. I might picture him with his shirt off and imagine what it'd be like to kiss him. ill admire his looks for awhile. my mind will probably wonder to sex and ill wonder is he good? if I reject someone that tries to get my number I most likely won't go tellin all my friends unless its a story that deserves a few laughs. now what decides if I give my number or not? if I get a creepy vibe from him I won't give it, if he seems annoying like he might be calling me everyday or if he seems desperate, I won't give it or if I'm just not interested I wont. but if he's casual, relaxed, and friendly (not creepy or obssesed seeming) I will give it. also girls like attention but at a limit. he shouldn't seem like he's got a million other girls he can call but he should seem not 100% available. does this all make sense? haha

[briannamarieb]

Yes I think about sleeping with him...maybe I'm hornier than other girls or something, but yes its the first thing that comes to mind. No I don't tell my friends about out because its not important and for the girls that do..you sound like a douche bag bragging about every guy that comes up to you. If I find him physically attractive that would seal the deal...for a number exchange.

[oreo23a]

1) No, I think about his looks and if he would ever go out with me.

2) Usually yes I do. We think it is funny and as just a joke. Some feel sorry for him some feel sorry for the girl.

3) When he acts like he likes you and is very attractive.

[LeaLovley]

1.) Sometimes, but not the second we see you we say: I wanna f*** him!

2.) I personally dont. If I don't like a guy, I don't want to go flaunt that he asked me out.

3.) Normally, I should know the guy. But he should be happy and fun. If I say no, don't be mad. Just walk away.

Happy New Year to you too!

[heartchu564]

1. Not right away I just think how attractive he is

2. No

3. If I'm single and he's cute