how would you'll like him to approach you?
- he doesn't show her respect and treats her like a sex object with the way he looks at her and tries to touch herso that would imply girls who are not looking for just sex?
Not every girl who goes to the club looking sexy is looking for just sex. It's ignorant of guys to assume that and it's a huge turn off to us girls!
and what are the things you'll find creepy about him?
if he has a really creepy look in his eye like "oooh big booty!" or if he's really persistant after I've already told him I don't want to dance with him. persistant as in showing up near me on the dance floor at random times long after I told him I didn't want to dance. Also if there's no real dancing skill and he just wants to stand there and have me rub my ass on his d***. that's weird.
what are the things that make you'll think he's not nice?
The way he approach me or how he talks to me...
your friends sound like bitches.. we're not all like that
tell me about it jokesgirl
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eye contact in a club is really hard to make lol its dark and there are a lot of ppl
what are the expectations of their high standards?
honestly I wouldn't know...lol But with my understanding, If you go to the club then you want to drink & have a good time with friends, flirt & maybe get laid; unless you're in a relationship, or not looking for one, but that doesn't mean ignore everyone of the opposite gender at all costs you know, lol
okay then what would be a good acceptable way of interacting with them?
Just try your best to assess the girls you might be interested in, if they are out on the dance floor than just make your way over there dancing and introduce yourself, they are the fun ones to be around. As far as girls who just hang around the bar and SITTING or POSTED up, they tend to be the stuck ups, or the girls who don't do 'anything' out of a relationship.
what about u?
I'm one of the dance floor girls ;P
why would they think he's a wierdo?
I don't think like this,but for some women,anything you do almost qualifies you as a weirdo.Maybe if the guy doesn't approach the girl correctly then they could be labeled as a weirdo.
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YOU SAID IT BRO!
Why do we have to stay home? Why can't guys just read body language and not approach girls who are obviously not interested? If we dress sexy but act standoffish to you then shouldn't that be a hint? Just because you dress sexy doesn't mean you want to be hit on by every man who sees you
She's asking for it!
Why stay home? lol!Lets see. wait in line... pay money for gas and drinks... get "BOTHERED" by men who approach you and creepy drunk men, not to mention you're more likely to get raped. And not to mention the "worry" about what other women (including your friends) think of what you're wearing.All so you can sit in a dark room, not talk to anyone but your friends in a dark corner by yourselves and listen to music.Seems to me you could do all of that at someones house.Or you're stupid.
not dude what she's trying to say is that they just want to look great, stand out in the crowd, be well suited for the occasion. Its a club after all.
how do they know your boring when they never met you before?
if you are standing in the corner all night doin nothing, bam, you are boring
that includes not dancing?
dancing is OK, but doing nothing, just standidng like a object part of a room decoration is boring
so are you saying that most girls that go to clubs are not looking for just sex?
Not all, no. When I personally go, it is just to go out and do something different.
What? You sound really boring.
I'm not boring. I just meet new people at school and at parties. I zone out at the club. lol