I have a problem in which I can only seem to attract the guys I'm not interested in and I just don't see the point in wasting my time and theirs if I'm not into them. I smile a lot and am nice to everyone so I think the ones I don't want take that the wrong way. but it's easier to talk to them because I don't care what they think, whereas with the guys I like it's harder to talk to them because they don't seem to notice me much. I don't know what to do. I know that I'm not very confident and I have a lot to work on physically and in my personality (like being less awkward and more outgoing) so I think that if I worked some of those aspects out that the guys I like could become attracted to me. what do you think?