Okay the typical signs I always see on the web and what hear guys talk about whether or not a girl like a guy. For some reason I never get signs on whether or not a girl is interested or wants me to approach. I kind of think that I look like Kenan Thompson from Kenan and Kel, yes I am plump (5'9'' and around 188lbs). I am hitting the gym, but it seem likes I am not really losing weight quick enough or at all. Also all the girls that I thought liked me just dropped me, by stop answering my calls and when I ask them out they always say that they are busy and talk to other guys in my presence. I feel like I am a lonely failure, because I see a lot of guys and girls that I find attractive talking to other guys and don't really talk to me. So I end up by myself all the time,even though they have told me on a number of occasions that I am funny and come off as a confident person. On dates I don't know how to keep all the confidence and be sexual and flirtacious.