What was the outcome? was it the same or different?

[Anonymous]

I have recently told one of my closest friends that I had a crush on him, but I didn't expect for him to think anything about it since he's talking to someone. But he was that's amazing and I was like what? he said that he also had stronger feeling but that he hadn't told me for the same reason we didn't want our friendship to change. It will be different for every person and some big factors are how mature the two of you are, how strong your friendship is, if he has a girlfriend or talking to someone. For me and my friend it hasn't changed our friendship for the worse we actually value each others opinions more because of the honesty between the two of us, but most people say that our friendship is weird because we do everything together and go to each other when we have any problems but yet we both are attracted to each other. You will have to think about all the possible things that can happen only you can make the final decision since you know him hopefully better than anyone else. I hope everything works out the way you want :) best of luck!

[fallen_angel_x]

Yes I did. He turned me down, so I said I didn't want to see him anymore because it would hurt. He didn't really respect that, when I was waiting for my train to arrive he'd sometimes come and talk to me (I was still in high school, he knew when I'd be there, he made it seem like it was a coincidence that he ran into me, but it so wasn't). That really pissed me off, but after some time we became friends again. We've had our problems and now, several years later, we actually are a couple.

Don't expect the friendship to be the same though. If you get turned down, you'll be hurt, and the other person might feel uncomfortable when you're around because you two don't want the same from each other.

[Hollirgirly]

I told some of my guy friends that I liked them and it always goes well even when we break up you just give it a few weeks and everything is back to normal, if your true friends it shouldn't really effect your relationship

[aliciaxx]

It depends on your maturity level. I know a girl who dated her best friend, and now since they broke up they don't even look at each other. But she is a complete drama queen, and he is an air head.

[Anonymous]

i have not but I'm curious about the answers as well because I like a friend but don't want to make things awkward