a guy I'm seeing for 3.5 months (hes older) got over a bad break up a few months ago but said he's open.he says things to me like "im lucky you're in my life, you're incredible, etc" yet we only see each other once a week but hell text me every day . but then he won't always answer. he's confusing! I know he wants to take it slow but hell cook for me and tell me a lot of things about himself . I feel like he's a bit unavailable to me yet super affectionate and into me when were face to face. what's going on? I know he's mad busy but is interested or using me in some way?