I'm following your intentions as "date" or "dump".. That is that if she's not interested that you should move on. But it sounds to me like a common trend, in that women are "playful" yet not interested in dating (aka they just want to have fun unless they find a mate they would die to be with). I don't think those are traits which aren't admirable and I'm encouraging you to take this friendship with her and learn something yourself. Just because you aren't "with her" doesn't mean you won't have a good time. And as much as I hate jumping to conclusions, even in a worst case scenario you may learn something which could either benefit you, her, or both of you. Keep in mind that you DO need to work out whether its "friends", "nothing", or something worth fighting for.
You could tell yourself all the hype that she's playing hard to get; that she may have been preoccupied with something else, or that you simply love her too much to give up.. But is it TRULY worth the headgames? One second: Your my friend (boyfriend), next second "i haven't met you before" (strangers)... I would go nuts, and to be honest, I'm too old and tired of the chasing games. Which is exactly why I choose to keep them as friends.
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yeah, like I told the poster above, I'm tired of chasing. It's never ended well for me if I have to call up a girl and keep initiating things. So I'm figuring that I'll just wait for her to come to me. If she does, I'll try to have fun, if she doesn't, then oh well.
I feel you on the chasing game. But sometimes you have to take a risk in order to make a gain. Like I originally stated, some people are worth chasing at the off chance you may end up dating them, but at this stage you only know the superficial facts to this person, so you are right that it might be a "oh well" moment. Either way, trust your heart, if you want to chase then chase, else you can walk away. Just keep in mind that if you don't chase, you may look like you don't know what you want.
"It's so clear - I'm sorry to say - but if you want to win you've got to learn how to play - "Head Games."
She might have flirted with you to show her interest, then ignore you because she is waiting for you to flirt with her- almost testing you to see what you're going to do and if you're interested. if you're interested in her, flirt back. I do that sometimes with a guy to see if he is interested. I don't like throwing myself at guys so I will show a little interest and wait for them to do something so I know they like me too
well, I took her number that day. I don't want to chase, though, that has always ended badly for me.
that's really confusing. I say if she ignores you again you can initiate a conversation and see if she's weird or not. if she continues to be weird I have no idea
She may just be shy. I sometimes do this the with the guy I like, I don't meant to look bad, my reason for doing it is because I'm unsure if he likes me back, so ill flirt with him but then try and play it cool so I don't look to stupid or pushy or desperate.
Every girl is different... she could be just being friendly, she could be playing hard to get... she's sending you mixed signals. I know it's easier said than done, but you could always ask her what he her deal is? ha ha :)
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doubt it. I've only seen her around a couple times.
she's a manipulative bitch, trust me she is just using you for the attention, she goes to you when she is bored or needs a distraction from what or whom is bothering her
But she doesn't seem like that type of girl?
then she is really good at it, even if she isn't meaning to use you, she is, so she probably isn't worth your time either way you slice it
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