Why are girls so confused about signals that guys like them? (Page 2)
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well in my situation he has done that...but off and on. Its never constant and he's never asked me out yet he'll do all of those things...and yet there are some days where he won't even talk to me at all and it hurts so I never am sure "(
But how can you tell if he likes you romantically vs likes you as a friend?
Because "friends" also do the same...
If he doesn't ask you out directly, then generally to a girl, those signals aren't so clear.
What would you advise then?
simple - we are emotional creatures. while you sometimes flirt just to play games, it readily appealed to us but we wanna make sure we're bot being played on so, we ask :)
We are emotional creatures or at least, most of us are :)
Its called mind games. Almost every guy likes to play them, so those signs don't really apply if a guy is using a girl.
Nice, a cynic for once!
some men are like that with all girls even if they dnt like them.what do you think?its the flirty time that confuse me but anybody else is like you said clear to me no problem
the reason we ask that question so much is because we want reassurance that he indeed likes us...I personally look through these questions, just to see if the guy I like is doing them...
i think its got to do with if they don't like us back, they refuse to believe he does all this BECAUSE he likes her
Instead of answering this one, I'll give you a question to think about.
Why are some guys ignorant to the signals from girls that they like them?
Because women's signals are super-subtle. Scientific studies all confirm that 93% of men can NOT read women's "sex-signals"... These are the physical hard-wired, biological universal signals that all women on the planet use. And 93% of all men born can not even see them (too subtle). As in physically unable to perceive them. Almost like missing that part of the brain.
I'd say that 92% out of that 93% don't use google too much.
Most of the igns are covered online, tbh. Although, I learned them from a book called (number) things a bright boy can do. Two small pages sure hold a lot of info :P
But when you have a girlfriend for long enough, you start to teach your intuition anyway.
Spelling: "...of the SIGNS are covered..."
Women have more emotional point of views then men, if a guy likes me, then he should go after me! :)
Exaaaactly.
Wrong, women should be asking men out, get off yer ass!
I asked a man I know out on a date recently as he was showing all those signs you wrote of. He turned me down. So that's why us women are confused by men's actions.
What if that is your ex-boyfriend that you dated a year ago and you're now friends again. How would I know if it's him not knowing how to be friendly again or if he just really likes me that way again? You see why this isn't always clear.
It's not the gesture that is confusing, it's that the guy himself is confusing. They don't know whether to weigh anchor or stay put.
If it wasn't as obvious to girls as it is to you, we wouldn't ask.
Obviously the two sexes are basically "enigmas" to the other.
Because usually signals have double meanings to us. I wish the genders would use words instead of actions, it would simply things in SO many ways.
Because women falsely assume that *we* think like they think.
we wanna know: does he actually like me or is he just playing with me/tryna get in my pants
i became confused as it said "men are very obvious about liking girls" but that just only for a day. the following day he became like a different guy. it seems like he don't know what he was said yesterday. one moment he's sweet and the next hour he seems like he don't know you.. how come i can't confused about it? he just keep staring straight to me.. no word no smile at all! what's that mean?
Well It's confusing because in my case I flat out told him I was interested. That got his attention and he's around me more but he runs hot and cold. It's frustrating and CONFUSING!
well we are don't want ot get inberessed or anything so we just want to be sure!
Because men do this and send mixed signals afterwards...by not calling showing less action and being aloof is why men confuse women!
This is exactly it. it's all of the mixed signals. he may touch you, he may flirt with you, he may have kissed you, but after all of that he hardly talks to you for a while. during which time you assume he doesn't like you any more but then he texts you again...guys make NO sense.