Is it weird that I asked my brother to give my butt cheeks a massage?

I was having pain in my cheeks, kinda like cramps, and well, I was at home and just really really felt the need for a nice massage there. My brother was home so I asked him. It was very awkward but he eventually agreed, so I layed down on my stomach (I was wearing something of course, leggings it was) and then he started massaging my cheeks with his hands, like a regular massage. I could feel his hands being very shaky and he was obviously nervous about it, but it just felt so relaxing and relieving. Anyways, was it weird of me to have asked him to do this for me? Or should it be no big deal?
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Btw. my brother is 15. Just in case this information matters to you.
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Alright, to clarify things: I did NOT make him do it, I ASKED him and told him it's okay if he rather not do it, and he himself said it's okay with him. So please everybody relax.
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  • Maybe a little unusual, but nothing wrong, it was just a massage. The reason your brother may have been nervous is that touching a girl's butt is sexual for most guys, and if you were wearing leggings, they probably accentuated the shape of your butt even more. It sounds like you probably have a sexy butt, which is why your brother was so nervous that he was shaking. He may have even gotten a little sexually aroused from massaging your butt.

    If you get that kind of pain in the butt again (no pun intended!) are you going to ask him to massage you there again?

    • I would of done it! My sister is sexy as hell

  • Um I find it different but not all that weird, more for your brother than you, cause I guarantee that it was turning him on hence the hand trembling it was showing he was nervous about it. but yeah massages are normal and having family perform them is normal so I guess you just had a normal massage in a strange area.

    • What makes you so sure he was turned on? Being nervous and shaky doesn't necessarily equal being sexually aroused, does it?

    • For a teenage boy yes, yes it does. Or did you never notice the boys in high school that walked around with their books in front of them, nervous as crap, after accidentally bumping into a female?

    • well you both could be right I was basing it from my own experiences as well as what I have seen if simply holding a girls hand can turn some teenagers on what do you think rubbing all over a girls rear would do?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lol yeah that's kinda weird. I mean I ask my little bro to give me back massages and foot massages when I really need one, but would never ask for that lmao. But hey, maybe you guya are just that close, so to each their own.

    • Well yes, we're pretty close, always have been. But yeah, thanks.

    • Oh my lanta! I received B.A.! So this is what it feels like? ~ascends to the heavens~ Thanks a lot :DD

    • You're most welcome! :D

  • very weird I ask my 6 year old bro for head,arm and neck massages but that is weird. Yeah you're justifying yourself through saying you asked him kindly have YOU ever thought that Maybe he felt OBLIGED to do the massage.

    • No, since I made it very clear to him that I totally understand if he doesn't want to. He was the one who eventually said he'd like to do this for me. No pressure there.

  • Uh, a little weird yeah. My brother and I are pretty close, we're friends and we hang out together a lot. But for me, it'd be weird for him to massage my butt...To each their own though.

    • Thanks.

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  • I would feel uncomfortable. Especially if I was a guy that age, ANYTHING turns them on family or not.

    • Hmm, I get what you're saying.

    • @ update: like you have never done anything you have never really wanted to do? Plus on the upside he got to touch a female butt, even if it was his sister. Oh the stories he probably told his buddies. Guys are gross, trust me I used to be the only female working on all male shifts for years. This was the kinda stuff they talked about.

    • So you think he tell his friend he got to touch a girl's ass, pretending it wasn't his sister but some other girl?

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  • Definitely not normal. But people have their own comfort zones on things. Some families walk around seeing each other naked like it's nothing. My brother's current Girlfriend took my brother's phone the other day when I was texting him and asked for a pantless picture. I sent a pic of me in my underwear. My brother was definitely weirded out by it but it was funny nonetheless.

  • In case you're not trolling, that's disturbing.

    • How so?

  • I would be careful people don't find out honey. Not normal at all!

    • Oh I'm not planning to tell anyone, I know how easily people judge. But is it really such a big deal?

    • It's child abuse. Is that a big deal?

    • Excuse me? I asked him to and made it clear to him he doesn't have to if it's too uncomfortable for him, but he said he'll do it. How is that abuse in any way? Way to blow something out of proportion. Jeez...

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  • Pffff I call TROLL

    • Okay?

    • XD

    • Thanks for your input, I guess?

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  • It seems you enjoyed it greatly.

    • The massage? Yes, I actually said that in the details.

  • Not weird...wrong, just so wrong, to do that to your little brother on so many levels wrong.

    • She'll own him for years now. Coy flirting then huge shut downs will destroy that boys confidence. Wait a minute! Why the hell was your ass sore enough to REQUIRE your little brother to rub the kinks out.

  • Also, it could have been worse. You could have taken off your leggings and been wearing just your thong when he massaged your butt cheeks. I'm sure that would have felt even more relaxing and relieving because the hand-to-cheek contact would have generated more warmth, so it would have made the massage feel even better. But then your brother probably would have become even more aroused to the point where he got an erection.

  • Yea, Its weird

  • I wonder if your brother feels sexually violated.

    • I told him he doesn't have to, I just kindly asked and he agreed.

  • Lol

  • Brothers searching for sister p*rn as we speek

    • speak* wtf was that o.o?

    • HAHAHA

    • Huh?

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  • Yeah that's strange.

  • Its weird

  • no I think its OK, especially if you both are OK with it. did he get horny? did you get horny?

  • WELL, I personally think/feel that it's NOT Too Bad at all I mean Yeah sure your Brother is only 15 years old BUT I Don't really think that it's ALL That Weird at all I mean if you were BOTH Willing to go ahead and do it/that with one another then I mean shoot and it was, as you say/said it WAS Your brother I mean How/Why in the world would that be all that Weird at all I mean as long as you Both JUST did that (the Massage) on your butt cheeks and that's all I couldn't possibly see how that wouldn't be normal at all... because it COULD HAVE Been Worse like Something Bad or EXTRA EXPLICIT could have happened to/with the both of you.

  • You’d be my favorite sister 🤤

  • Nah I don't think it's that big of a deal. My sister has given me massages before around my inner-thigh area and what not.

  • I think you're not being honest , And you wanted that to happen . You wanted him to be turned on , If a guy is touching a butt period that will turn him on . You should be ashamed , You knew exactly what you were doing .

    • You're assuming alot.

    • A lot *****

    • nasty ass like who does that, my older sister touches me on my butt and I don't like it and I would never want to touch her like that.

  • Yes it's weird , I would never have my brother doing such things . Some places family members shouldn't be touching , Especially the opposite sex in the family . If nothing is physically wrong with you , You shouldn't have put him in that position .

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