Most Helpful Guy
For the first date something light. Like coffee and a very light meal, like salad or a sandwich. Or maybe some dessert or pastries.
On the later dates you can go to a restaurant and get a bigger meal.
Most Helpful Girl
Simple stuff that's not too messy. Pizza, sandwiches, burgers, pasta, Chinese food. I'd avoid lettuce, berries, onions, or anything saucy.